Favors can make or break relationships.
This is just my take.

I mean, I bet you guys have experienced having people approach you for favors and vice versa.

Don't get me wrong, that's normal. After all, no man is an island and a helping hand will always be welcome.

However, admittedly, asking, giving and receiving favors can be tricky at times.

A lot of things come to play: your relationships, your resources, you state of mind, body and heart and the circumstances surrounding you.

Take it from me, through the years I have a lot of experience when it comes to favors, whether as a giver or recipient. And I can't help but laugh as I recall the important lessons I learned along the way. Yep, the risks were worth it. Haha!

So now, allow me to share with you the golden rules I have formulated to perhaps help guide everyone as they ask, give or receive favors accordingly so that whatever happens, relationships can still thrive.

When asking for favors:

  1. When asking favors, never be demanding. Remember, this is a request, not an order.
  2. Be genuinely interested in making small talk before asking for a favor. Never just spill the beans out. When in doubt, revert back to rule number 1.
  3. Pre-determine your relationship status with the person you're asking favors from. Are you close enough? How familiar are you with each other? Never force anything to anyone who does not share the same space with you. Invest on building relationships first.
  4. Be clear about what you want. Don't make the other party guess. Or else you'll end up getting less than what you expect.
  5. Never be too desperate following up on favors. Trust the word of the other person. A follow up near the agreed upon date will be fine. Tons of texts, private messages, emails or calls will do more harm. That's harassment, you know.
  6. Say thank you whether or not your favor is granted. It's a risk worth taking so take responsibility for it by being respectful at least.
  7. Never lie just to get your favors granted. That will backfire eventually and will cost you even more than the favor recieved.
  8. Work with what is convenient with the one you're asking favor from. Should you have preferences, express them as requests, subject to the other party's approval. It's not just about you and what you need and want in this case.

When granting favors:

  1. Grant favors whole-heartedly. Never do things for others that are against your values or will.
  2. Set clear expectations and parameters. Never give false hopes or play with the emotions or thoughts of people. Better to be honest than to lead people on. Stick to what you agreed on.
  3. Be clear with your intentions. Are you looking for something in return? Manage expectations. Not everyone is like you. Some may not know the concept of returning favors at all.
  4. Grant only favors you can truly manage. Never compromise your core values or your well-being for the sake of pleasing others. Don't ever feel guilty for not being able to give what others expect from you or when you say NO to things not in alignment. You are in control. Never give up that space just to look good.
  5. Express gratitude to yourself and to the one asking for a favor after. To yourself for being able to respond the best way you can and to the other party who saw you as a source of hope.

When receiving favors:

  1. Say thank you genuinely. Please. This is basic. Enough said.
  2. Please try your best to return the favor. This may not be immediately or of the same intensity but it will be really nice to express your openness to help eventually. Never burn bridges after getting what you want or you'll find yourself in hot water soon enough there after.
  3. Honor your word. Make sure you comply with the demands/requests of the person granting the favor.
  4. Never compromise your (and the other person's) integrity and credibility by putting your reputation at risk.
  5. Grant others favors too. Let the goodness cycle continue. You've received help to help others who are in the same space as you someday.
  6. Be honest always. When you're having difficulties in complying with what was agreed upon, say it immediately. don't do it the last minute. The other party deserves to know accordingly and make sure that you are ready to humbly accept what the other party has to say.
  7. Don't ever take it against the other party if he/she is unable to grant your favor the way you expected it. There are a lot of things to consider and yes, it's not just about you.
  8. Make the most of the favor received. Don't let it go to waste.
  9. Your situation and how you feel have nothing to do with your commitment. Don't burden the other party about those and don't use them as an excuse for not meeting deadlines or submitting deliverables. Have enough self-accountability to make things work despite and inspite of. That's part of you as you become your own #bestmeever . When there's a will, there's a way. Or two.

Remember, when it comes to favors, respect is key. So make sure you take that in consideration whether you're asking, giving or receiving them.

I hope this helps everyone reading this see favors in a different light as you put more value on the relationships that come to play.

And that's one favor you can give yourself now.

You wouldn't know unless you try.
So true.

Sadly though, easier said than done.

I mean, admittedly, there are lots of things to consider when making life-changing decisions as part of you becoming your own #bestmeever .

And some of those things can be quite nerve-wracking and downright scary.

It's not easy to take a leap of faith, most especially if you're not guaranteed any safety net in between.

But hey, I on a personal note, think that taking that leap will always be better than be left feeling stuck and miserable for the rest of your life.

It will take a whole lot of courage, self love and determination to do just that, all of which I truly believe that each one of us has within, only if we commit fully to whatever it is that we are called to be and do.

Feeling happy, content and fulfilled at the end of the day is priceless. So what will you be willing to give to have those?

Allow me to share with you the 5 risks worth taking for your consideration:

  1. Accepting your true self

Loving yourself whole and embracing yourself fully, flaws included, gives you that superpower of being able to withstand even the harshest of all critics and the darkest shadows of self-doubt. Being comfortable with your own skin allows you to enjoy life as is without having the need to pretend or explain yourself, both of which not needed in the first place. You do you. And you deserve to take up space as you are.

2. Pursuing your dreams

Your dreams are there for a reason: to guide you to become what you're really meant to be. So be brave enough to listen to your mind and heart about what they're longing for, Go for it. You have nothing to lose. You only have so much to gain, because whatever the result may be, good or bad, you learn along the way. And you grow as you journey.

3. Letting go of toxic relationships

Surround yourself only with people who bring out the best in you and not the stress in you. Haha! Seriously, choose the people you wish to share spaces with. You don't need a particular relationship to validate you that you are good enough, that you belong, that you are wanted, needed and loved. IF it's no longer sparking joy or inspiration, it's time to say good bye to that relationship. It doesn't make you a bad person (same goes with the other party, if I am to say this objectively), it only means that you have learned your lesson and the next chapter awaits without them playing any part in it. And that's perfectly ok.

4. Falling in love

Yihiiii!!! Haha! Admit it, there's something unexplainably amazing when you give and receive love. So loving will always be worth the risk. Please take note though that this does not only mean falling in love with another person; it can also mean falling in love with yourself and what you do. Don't be afraid to commit mistakes, to experience challenges or to be vulnerable in between -- all those are part of your heart's journey towards its own happiness. Just go and grow with the flow.

5. Starting all over again

If ever you find yourself at the lowest point in your life, whether coming from a heart break, a failure or whatever else led you there, be brave enough to pick yourself up and start all over again. Because you can. You had to reach rock bottom so that you will have a really solid foundation when you finally embark once more on the journey that's really meant for you. You only have to make that choice to give yourself the permission to experience the magic of new beginnings once more.

So which risk are you going to take?

All of them? Great!

I got you, Unicorn.
You will be just fine.
And yes, it will be worth it.

The more, the merrier, as they say.
I say: True for some, but not for all.

You see at times, less can be more and having enough is a blessing by itself.

The things we normally forget because we keep on comparing ourselves to others, trying to live up to society's expectations and wanting to look good in the eyes of many. Definitely not the way to be happier, if that's your goal.

Don't get me wrong: wanting more in life is normal. Who doesn't want an upgrade? However, it doesn't mean that you should be miserable in your current space with what you have. Remember, you can still enjoy the present without stressing yourself much about what can still be in the future.

That is what being content with what you have now means. Being present and grateful as you live and flourish by choice in the now.

Allow me to share with you the 5 ways on how to be content with what you have in your life now:

1, Create a list of the things that you initially wished for that you have now

We are so blessed in so many ways than one. Sadly at times, we forget that because we set our eyes somewhere else. Take this time to inquire within and reflect on how much you have and what you've achieved since you started wishing for the things and results you wanted in your life. Trust me, when you count your blessings, you will never feel that something is lacking.

2. Focus on your own growth and journey

Eyes on the prize. And that means staying committed and loyal to your own #bestmeever . Stop peeking into the lives of others. Or if you do, turn them as inspirations to do better. and not be bitter about your current space Never forget to acknowledge your own growth because it's different from everyone else. So no sense of comparing.

3. Validate yourself in your current space and capacity

You've made it this far and you deserve a pat on the back. While things may not be perfect at present, recognize the things that have gone well and how much you learned in the process from both good and bad experiences. Being kinder to yourself inspires you more to go further, so gift yourself with the praises and loving words you long to hear from others.

4. Invest on yourself

You want to grow more? Invest on yourself and be genuinely excited with your own growth. You see, complaining about what you don't have at present won't get you closer to your goals. Working on yourself and focusing on your own growth, will. Take that class. Train at the gym. Get a coach. Do whatever it takes to make you love and appreciate yourself more.

5. Intentionally seek for silverlinings

Your current space, with what you have and don't have, is teaching you valuable lessons you will need in your upcoming journey. Look beyond what seems less than perfect and see what you can learn along the way. Remember, at times, the best lessons come from the most painful experiences. And that includes that feeling of having less than enough. The bigger question is: what can be good about it? Inquire within.

I hope that after reading through this you get to have new appreciation for your current space as you become content with what you have now.

Know that contentment was never about having more.
It's about being open and grateful for what you already have, or less there of.
Because regardless of all those, life goes on.

You're happy.
Great.

That's a very wonderful space to be in right now.

Maybe you've just healed from your past. Or achieved a new milestone. Or practicing new habits. that help you see the brighter side of things.

Whatever you're doing, I am so glad it's working for you.

I have always believed that genuine happiness should always be the main consideration when making life-changing decisions or pursuing one's dreams and goals.

Being in that state of happiness actually works to one's advantage.

So imagine, what if you can even be happier than you are now?

What if we can take that joy a notch higher? How different do you think you're life would be?

Even more amazing I suppose.

I guess it's all about adding that extra "oomph"... that "er" after the things that you've already been made familiar with in your journey.

Allow me to share with you the 5 ways on how to be happier in your space:

  1. Try harder

If you know you can do more, do better. Don't just settle for what's easy. Treat the journey you have now as something that's both empowering and exciting and allow yourself to grow in the process by humbly mastering all the challenges along the way. Give each one another try, this time with a little more effort, and see how that changes your results and how you feel about it initially.

2. Dream bigger

Nothing is impossible for a person who believes. Whatever your #bestmeever may look like, go for it. Aim higher. You've already made it this far. You can definitely go further, only if you allow your mind and heart to visualize bigger possibilities.

3. Become healthier

Take care of your over all wellness and well-being by only allowing people, things and situations that will contribute wonderfully to your health and happiness. Never take your health for granted and try at least doing one extra thing that will have your future self thank you at present.

4. Spend quality time with loved ones longer

Create new memories. Grow in harmony with people who make you feel so alive and make life worth living. When your heart overflows with gratitude and love, not only because of these people you choose to have in your space but also from within, you will be able to find more joy in even the most random things.

5. Be wiser.

Learn from your mistakes. Grow from them. Don't let them define you. Instead, use them as stepping stones towards your own success. Remember, experience is the best teacher and regardless of whether it's good or bad, it's helping you acquire the knowledge and skills you need to push further in life. Just take them to heart.

You see, happiness is a matter of choice.

And by choosing to do (and be) all these things mentioned here, you allow yourself to be happier.

Time to take that happiness of yours to the next level.
Because you still can.

It's not always about you.
Because the world does not revolve around you.
This.

Admittedly at times we tend to stress a lot when things don't work out even if we have already done our best which leads us to become a little too sensitive for comfort.

Even well-meant feedbacks are taken like daggers because they hurt just as much.

However, we must take in consideration that it's part of growing. Without feedback, whether good or bad, you wouldn't know how else you can improve. And that can lead you to feeling stuck and unhappy if you continuously block what's actually good for you and your growth.

Easier said than done, I know.

We always take pride in ourselves and our work because that's what we are supposed to do: to love ourselves whole and embrace ourselves fully.

Correct.

And, what's missing out though is that, unconditional love also requires full acceptance.

That we can't be everyone's cup of tea. And that's perfectly fine.

So the big question is: how can you be comfortable with not taking things personally?

Allow me to share the 5 ways to see things differently when you feel offended by what others have to say about you:

  1. Consider this: not all opinions are facts

You know yourself better than anyone else. And every other person will have a different perception about you and what you've done. However, not everything that you hear is grounded on hard facts. Holding on to assumptions or opinions won't ever get you the results you want. You will only confuse yourself more. Seek out an expert who can tell you objectively what you really need to hear. In the process of doing so, just keep your cool and park those opinions so they don't block your logic as they play with your emotions.

2. It's not about you, really

I said it before and I will say it again: it's not always about you. People see you through their own lens of experiences. And those are definitely different than yours. So take to heart that their perceptions about you are coming from their own judgments which do not necessarily reflect your truth. So let them go.

3. Feedback is good

If you knew that it's for your own good, something which can help you become your own #bestmeever , will you still be resistant to it? Take feedback as something for your consideration as you improve yourself along the way. You need not take them all to heart, learn how to discern what's good for you. Take note though that you can only do that if you're receptive to receiving them at first.

4. It's still your call

Don't let the words of others cripple you. You have the power to accept them or reject them. You just have to come from a space of authenticity and worthiness to be able to stand up for what you truly believe in. And trust me, you can. So stop stressing about what others have to say about you, because you are still in control of yourself.

5. You've proven yourself time and again

You making it this far speaks about what you're made of and how far you can still go. If you have proven nay sayers time and again that they're wrong, then why worry now? You have done it before. You can always do it again and again until they stop and accept that you will always be amazing beyond words.

After reading all these, I hope that you learn to not to take things personally.

Remember: you will always be more than what others have to say about you.
Keep shining.

Life is not perfect.
And that's a fact.

We can only make the most of it by embracing each and every moment for what it is and what it brings.

And that includes the twist and turns, the usual curve balls and humps along the way.

Remember, no one can ever control or predict life in general. So don't stress yourself trying to make things go your way always.

Because yes, that's not exactly 100% possible.

However, it's not easy admittedly to take that to heart always.

Most of the time, our own expectations (alongside those of others) get in the way.

Which eventually make us hate ourselves unnecessarily as we try so hard to figure things out by ourselves, in our terms.

We begin to question everything and everyone, including ourselves about the reasons why things are happening as they are.

Well today, allow me to share with you the 5 reasons why things are not working out:

  1. You're transitioning

Yep, change is inevitable. And usually, things get so chaotic before everything falls into place. Moving on or levelling up was never an easy task and the uncomfortable situation that you're in right now is actually telling you that you're embarking on either journey mentioned earlier.

2. You're not yet ready

Greatness takes time. So allow yourself to fail forward. To commit mistakes. To experience hardships. Not getting what you want initially, whether it's your dream job, a relationship you want or the recognition you aspire -- is actually telling you to keep going as you keep growing. Try harder. Do better. Make room for improvements. Trust me, someday, your preparations will pay off.

3. You need to learn an important lesson

Any experience, good or bad, teaches us an important lesson we can use as we move forward in life. You are given challenging situations you can learn from so you can journey towards becoming your own #bestmeever . Please take note that if you're experiencing the same stressful event over and over again and you noticed that it's actually becoming harder and harder in the process, treat it as God's (or the Universe's) way of knocking some sense (and a whole lot of learning) into you.

4. You're being protected

This is perhaps the trickiest one to spot. But it's a real silver lining, if I may say. Life has its own way of saving you from toxic relationships, wrong decisions or merely settling. You just have to trust the process. Breaking up and letting go may be painful at first but what if staying was far worse? Think about that.

5. Better things are coming

Things have to fall apart to make room for better ones to come into place. Trust the process. Your space now might suck big time but know that it's only temporary. Keep the faith. Keep moving forward. Better days ahead. Hang on.

I hope this list allows you to reframe your thoughts when things are not working out.
after all, they might actually be working right for you.
Finally.

Be your own greatest fan.
And that includes loving yourself whole and embracing yourself fully.

Which basically means, you have to stop hating yourself.

Hate is such a powerful negative emotion that we should be mindful about because it can wreck havoc not only on ourselves but on everything that we do and everyone around us.

However, we tend to hate ourselves when things don't go as planned, when we fail to meet our own (and that of others too) expectations, when delays happen and we feel that we are not in control of the situation we're in.

What escapes us though is that the more we hate ourselves, the more desired results don't fall into place.

I tell you this now: how you treat yourself is a mirror of what you're getting in life right now. Uhuh. Even the way others treat you is a reflection of what you allow (and don't allow) in your own life.

I think I hit a nerve there, didn't I?

Well, hopefully that opens your eyes towards the reality that you have to take responsibility for yourself and your life and not let other people, things or circumstances define you.

And while you're at it, take this opportunity to learn how you can be kinder to yourself as you do away with self hate with these tips:

  1. Ground yourself first

Pause. Breathe. Let calmness surround you. And ask yourself this powerful question: what's under my control that I can focus on to help me get rid of this negative emotion? More often than not, we let ourselves be overwhelmed by what's happening around us that we forget that what matters most is how we take charge of how we feel within and what's under our control. Trust me, 5 minutes of grounding yourself can do wonders for you and lessen the anxiety, worries and stress that lead to unnecessarily hating yourself.

2. Remember how blessed you are

Yep, counting your blessings help. Give yourself more credit. You made it this far so admittedly you must have done something good in your life to deserve that progress. Take time to list down your blessings and allow yourself to feel grateful as you recognize each. In the process of doing so, you will get to realize that you deserve a pat on the back too. Give yourself just that.

3. Compliment yourself

If you find it easy to compliment others, apply that practice to yourself too. Self-affirmations can help empower you even during the most difficult days as you give yourself your own much needed boost of self-confidence and empowerment. Compliment your looks, praise your progress, remember your worth. All these matter. Like you do, too.

4. Question the validity of your negative emotion

There are perhaps a number of other underlying emotions that have resulted to self-hate. Try to uncover and understand them so that you get to process them better. As you get to deal with the root cause, you begin to slowly eliminate the negativity that resulted from piled up emotions coming from a space of overwhelm. I mean, do you really hate yourself for who and what are? Or are you just feeling scared about the outcome? Feeling guilty about what transpired? Yep, there can be many narratives that can be addressed differently, accordingly. Clarity is key.

5. Build a strong support circle

You are not alone in your journey. Other people share your sentiments so don't judge yourself for reaching out for help. Surround yourself with people who bring out your best, you make you feel seen and heard and who can cheer you up when times are rough. Consider also seeking the help of mental health professionals if things become too much for you. Help is readily available. Always. You just have to ask.

To wrap this up, I just want you to take this to heart:

Never hate. Just have faith.
In yourself. In the process. And in the best days ahead.

You're on your way to becoming your own #bestmeever .

So please, love yourself more.

"Don't let money change you."
One thing I always say to people who ask me for financial advice.

I mean, I am no financial guru nor a money making expert, however, I'd like to believe that I know how to manage my finances, one way or another. Haha!

Through the years, I made sure that I have enough money for investments, my savings and life's little luxuries, enough for me to say that I can live comfortably with what I earn. And within my means, if I may add.

The latter actually is sacred to me; I don't really splurge on stuff I can't afford or would have troubles paying off.

That's just me. Simply because I don't want to fall into the trap of having so many debts to pay that may cause sleepless nights due to unwanted stress, anxieties and worries.

More than that, I also have seen a lot of relationships fall apart because of money matters. I mean, we're talking about like years of friendship, families torn apart and romantic relationships turned sour because of unpaid debts.

Yeah, someone had to say that. And I guess being one of those who have experienced that, I can also relate fully to that ugly feeling when money takes control of even the most beautiful relationships, or so I (we) thought.

So since I have been asked time and again by people who are becoming highly anxious about their debts on how to deal with it, I decided to share my take on it.

Mind you, I do all these in the rare occasions I make a loan for an important investment e.g. a new property for AirBnB (there's what you call good debt guys, none the less, it should be taken seriously as well) so that I get to maintain a good relationship with whomever I am getting money from e.g. super close friend (emphasis on super), bank loan etc. So yeah, it's possible to make loans work for you without sacrificing your relationships.

Here are the 5 things you should remember:

  1. Face your debt

The impulse of most people is to run away from their debts. Mind you though: you cannot resolve what you don't face. So accept the fact that you have a debt to pay and face it responsibly. By this we mean not denying yourself to live in the now nor denying the existence of the debt, while you do away with the anxieties you are attaching to the future. When you start facing your "problem", solutions will come to surface. You were brave enough to make that loan, so be braver to take responsibility for it.

2. Honor your word

Was there a contract signed? What were the agreements? Ensure that you are on the same page and never assume anything to avoid any misinterpretations. Remember, the moment that you affix your signature on something is the moment you put your credibility and integrity on the line. Never compromise them. Make sure to remember important dates and give payments that are due during that time. And yes, put everything into writing always.

3. Be honest

Ok, admittedly there might be some unforeseen events that may cause you to have problems paying up. Tell that upfront ahead of time. Approach with humility. Discuss possible solutions. Never just remain silent and wait for things to fix themselves, because more often than not, they won't. Don't give false hopes or pretend that everything is still according to planned. Remember, lying may get you off the hook initially, but will definitely put you in hot water in the long run. Honesty goes a long way. Never underestimate the compassion of people. But don't ever abuse them too.

4. Practice empathy towards the other person

While it's stressful to have debts, consider also that another person or party is involved. It's not just about you. It's also stressful for the person/party that you owe money to. So ask yourself this: how does the other person feel? what can help him/her understand better the situation I am caught in? What compromise can I propose for consideration? Remember, relationships will always be more important than money so be sensitive enough to acknowledge the needs and wants of the other person involved, whether a friend, family, loved one or business or work contacts. Initiate updates, assure them every now and then and commit to agreed upon deadlines. Don't ever ignore them, make broken promises or open ended deadlines...I am beyond sure you don't want that to happen to you as well and the other party/person does not deserve to be treated that way especially if they have done their part and have given you much consideration already.

5. Create solid plans

This can make or break any relationship. Seriously, if you don't have any solid plans (and yes, that's intentionally with an s!), then you're putting yourself and your relationship in danger. Have plan A, plan b, or even a plan c to ensure that all bases are covered and you don't go back to the other person/party with more negative news just because you only relied on one solution. While crafting many plans would be nice, committing to them is more crucial. Do away with lip service. Set exact deadlines. Seek help if needed. Walk the talk. Take the lead. That's part of you becoming your own #bestmeever as you take responsibility for your self, debts and actions .

So let me end this blog post by reminding everyone that

your debts should never define you nor your relationships.
Your response towards them, will.

Take it from there.

" To become my own #bestmeever ."

Perhaps everyone's goal this year.

To finally be his/her best.

That's such an empowering thought, if I may say.

And hopefully, that aspiration rings true long after 2023 has passed.

I mean, we should always strive to be our best right? Not just during new year.

However, admittedly, easier said than done.

Changing for the better does not happen overnight.

It requires a whole lot of work, a number of sacrifices and the right ammunition to be able to become the best version of one's self.

Allow me to share with you the 5 things you need to become the best version of yourself:

1.) A clear goal / vision

It all starts with being so specific and precise about what is it that you really want to become? How does your best version look like? What does it feel? Check on your core values and create that vivid scenario in your mind so that you have something to anchor on as you transition towards your best. Avoid generic statements like "I just want to be happier." or "I am financially stable." . Fill in as much details as you can. Write them down if you must and you can add pictures as visual support even. Remember, the clearer you are, the better because your action plans become more aligned with your end goal in mind.

2.) Healthy habits

Yes, health is wealth. So we must treat our over all wellness and well-being as something that is priceless. Check on your habits. What are not working for you? What can you change? What can you add to compliment your desired results in your life? This requires a whole lot of honesty and commitment because as they say, old habits die hard. However, by choice, you can overcome those which have been wrecking havoc in your life, one step at a time, one day at a time. Whether it's all about eating mindfully this time around, exercising, prioritizing your mental health, sanitizing your social circle or simply letting yourself be -- create healthy habits that will help you become your best eventually.

3.) Commitment to a definite timeline

Your "when" is just as important as your "what" , "why" and "how". Give yourself a specific target date of completion. When do you want to achieve all these? Identify milestones along the way so that you will be continuously inspired. Stay committed to your goals even during tough times by being flexible in your approach and celebrating growth of whatever size or impact. Do away with your notion of "someday" and "one day" and focus on turning each and every moment as a potential "day one" --- where in you're overly excited, very committed and hungry to pursue your dreams as you become the person you're meant to be.

4.) A loving support group

While it's awesome (and mandatory, actually) to be the greatest fan of one's self, it would be nice to have people rallying behind your back as you reach for the stars and make your dreams come true. Involve the people closest to your heart: family, friends, significant others, mentors etc. -- basically whoever you think can inspire you along the way when the going gets tough and when you have wins to celebrate collectively.

5.) An awesome life coach

No joke. Really. Get yourself a highly qualified coach to journey with you so that you get to navigate clearly in your personal or professional journey with the greatest of ease. Choose one you resonate with and one who embodies your very own aspirations e.g. if you want to work on your weight, self perception and mindset, try seeking for a coach that has done that and delivered results for himself and others. before . Someone who walks the talk, basically. Note that your chosen coach must just be inspiring for you so that each and every session that you have with that person, will be life changing as he motivates you fully, genuinely. Remember, your coach is perhaps one of the best investments you can make as you embark on a journey towards personal growth. So choose well.

After reading all these, now it's time for you to reflect: what's that one thing I can do immediately to become the best version of myself?

Then take it from there.

Cheering you on!

Happy new year!
Which basically equates to a happy new you!
Hopefully.

We often make the new year as the perfect time to self-reflect and recalibrate there after.

I guess it's that notion that we have to begin the year on a clean slate.

Which can mean reinventing one's self in the process to become one's own #bestmeever whatever that may look like.

However, truth be told, we need not wait for the new year to change anew.

To become the person we want to be.

Because in reality, we can start all over again at any given point in our lives.

So yes, this is your cue to reflect: what is my current space and what's next for me?

Be sure to be clear about it so that you will be guided accordingly as you go through the rest of 2023, better than ever.

Now, the big question is: when do you begin?

Here are 5 signs that it's time to start all over again in 2023:

1.) When things are not working out for you

Come from a space of honesty and ask yourself what's not in alignment in your life? What's causing unnecessary stress and chaos? Remember, as the saying goes, some things have to fall apart so that the right ones can fall into place. Maybe that's telling you the same: that you're not supposed to be in the same space that has become too small or too crowded for you. Time for that personal overhaul.

2.) When things are going really smoothly for you

I know. This may be the exact opposite of the one I mentioned earlier. But so as not to confuse you, what this basically means is that if you encounter a number of coincidences that seem to be stepping stones towards where you want to be, take them as your sign. Be brave enough to level up. The Universe is letting you know that you are very much supported and loved.

3.) When you're having doubts

Be mindful of your own feelings and emotions. If doubts are starting to creep in, whether it's about yourself, your work, your relationship or whatever else matters to you, pause first and assess the situation. Then based on your reflection, begin anew with what will work best for you. And yes, feeling confused at times is normal. What's essential is what you do there after.

4.) When you have prepared for it fully

You worked hard. Stayed committed all through out. Did everything you can with all that you have in the last few months or years. So what's stopping you from turning the page and embarking on a new adventure you've always dreamed of? You are now built for the battle. Conquer it. There's no perfect timing really; only the perfect decision to commit to one's self and one's growth. You are ready.

5.) When nothing seems to be happening

The world around you might seem too fast paced at time while you seem stuck at present. That's your sign to get yourself out of that rut. Learn what you must, do what you can. But remember to keep moving forward after mastering the stillness around you. Because that space was actually preparing you for something far greater than you imagined.

If you reached this point then most probably you could have related to at least one of these.

If you did, congratulations.

This is your sign.

Welcome 2023 with a bang.

Time to start all over again.
Because change will always be beautiful.

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