Glasses photo created by wayhomestudio -

Written by Myke Celis

April 20, 2021

Here’s an interesting fact:

At times, what really makes a goal hard to achieve is not the lack of skills nor opportunities.

It’s the lack of self-confidence.

That feeling of not being worthy, not being good enough.

These are walls we built by ourselves.

They hold us back from becoming the person we are meant to be: our very own #bestmeever .

Let’s face it: it’s not that easy to be truly confident when we all have experienced a lot of down times in our lives.

However, please know that it’s very much possible to increase your self-confidence with these 5 tips I will share with you:

  • Stop letting your past define you

It’s over and done with. So why hold on to whatever painful experience you’ve had up to this day? You have a choice to start all over again as you learn from what initially broke you so you can have your own breakthrough. You’re not defined by your past; you’re defined by the choices you make there after.

  • Celebrate previous successes

Somewhere along the way, you have succeeded in your own right. Celebrate those wins. If you’ve done it before, why worry about not being able to achieve the same now?

  • Acknowledge how far you’ve gone

You’ve survived and made it this far. So why doubt yourself? Wear your battle scars proud. And give yourself that much-deserved pat on the back.

  • Create a strategic action plan

What normally freaks us out is the fact that we don’t have a plan to back us up as we pursue our goals, coming from a space of unfamiliarity. By carefully listing down all your options and specific steps on how you can reach your goals, you become more confident in the process knowing that somehow, you have it all figured out.

  • Practice self-affirmation

Be your own best fan. Tell yourself all the words you long to hear. Know that you are truly great within, you just have to consistently remember that, no matter what. The thing is: you’re actually the best person to remind yourself too.

There you go. I hope that these tips will enable you to level up your confidence so you can finally pursue your dreams with the greatest of ease.

Enjoy your journey as you break free confidently!

You may also like

5 Things To Do When You Are Wrong

5 Things To Do When You Are Wrong

It feels so good to be right, right? And so bad when you fumble and fuck things up. I know. It really sucks when you're wrong. But hey, committing mistakes is not a sign of failure. It's a beautiful sign that you're actually trying to improve yourself as you grow...

5 Questions To Reflect On During The Holy Week

5 Questions To Reflect On During The Holy Week

It's more than just a very long vacation.The Holy Week for Catholics, like myself, that is. More than the planned (or unplanned) trips and getaways here and there, the Holy Week actually presents a beautiful opportunity to reflect and recalibrate, as you do away with...

5 Ways To Deal With Delays

5 Ways To Deal With Delays

Fact: Not yet does not mean never. Things will happen when it's time. So why do we stress over delays too much? Why do we let ourselves suffer in the process of waiting for the best that's yet to come? Why do we always equate delays with something that can hold us...

1 Comment

  1. mehwish saliha

    This website is giving amazing information. Very informative and motivational blog.


Submit a Comment

Your email address will not be published.