Nov 12 2021

5 Things To Do When You're Feeling Down

Written by: 
Myke Celis

It's ok not to be ok.

My exact space in the last 23 days.

This may come as a surprise for a lot of people because they still saw me working, smiling, coaching and inspiring others to become their best.

However, I told those who were really close to me about my real state then:

That I was tired. Sad. Burned out. Anxious.

Definitely not my own #bestmeever . The irony of it all. Haha!

I wanted to share this with you all to allow you to be comfortable with yourself and how you feel and help you manage your emotions and mental state along the way.

I am just very fortunate that I have a solid support system and I knew how to coach myself in between sessions with my own master coach.

I know though that it may be difficult for others so hopefully this blog post of mine can help you. One small step can make a very big difference in your life now, or in someone else's who might be in the same dark space at present.

Allow me to share with you 5 things you can do when you're feeling down:

  1. Acknowledge how you feel

What you're feeling is valid whether it's sadness, anger, grief, or whatever it is. . Don't invalidate it. Remember, the more you resist it, the more it will persist. Come from a space of humility and honesty and allow yourself to feel accordingly. That way you will be able to process your emotions better. Express your emotions accordingly: cry if you must, release your anger (or any other emotion) mindfully.

2. Give yourself a break

More than ever, now is the best time to rest. Don't feel guilty for giving yourself a break. You can always take responsibility for your actions there after. What is important now is that you don't force yourself to be highly productive when you're not your best. You'll only compromise your output and you'll feel more frustrated there after. Take a day or two off or even a week. You know yourself better. Just make sure that you endorse everything properly and you explain clearly to all those who will be affected. In my case, I told my clients that I will be coaching remotely by the beach and I will be accepting less sessions in the process so I can have my much-needed time off, one I never did allow myself before when the whole pandemic started, because you guessed it, work calls.

3. Do things you love

I went to the beach because it's my happy place. I made it a point to consistently do long walks every morning and evening while reflecting and coaching myself in the process. In your case, treat yourself to what makes your heart skip a beat, something outside of your usual routine and one that can make you appreciate yourself and your new space more. What is important here is that you allow yourself to grow in harmony with the present as you gain clarity about what's causing your emotional and mental turmoil.

4. Talk it out

Don't be afraid and ashamed to reach out to people whom you trust fully. Have your own support group. In my case, I only told the people who were closest to me and my coach that I wasn't really in a good space. What I liked was that all of them didn't try to give me any advice or forced me to have a coaching session immediately. They just told me to take my time off and talk to them when ready. And so I did. That allowed me to be able to feel secured all through out my personal journey, knowing that I am supported and loved accordingly. One thing though: it is advisable that you don't have your meltdown on social media because at times that becomes a show for others more than just a concern. When at the brink of giving up, reach out. Even to a mental health professional or a coach to help you manage everything better.

5. Journal daily

Write down your thoughts. Whatever they may be. This mental dump will help clear your mind and allow you to unburden yourself in the process and have something to look back at when things finally fall into place eventually after the storm. Feel free to express your emotions accordingly with each thought and recognize breakthroughs and small wins along the way as you celebrate them. I am a firm believer that no matter how bad things may seem at present, there will always be a beautiful silver lining. You just have to be intentional in seeking the good beyond what's in front of you. Yes, that's very much possible so that you get to realize how blessed you are to begin with.

I hope these tips help you when you're feeling down. Remember that's only temporary.

Because soon, you'll find yourself in a happier space again.

Been there. Done those. And I am now ok.

Hang on. I got you!

Begin Your #bestmeever Journey.

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